David and Sam came to North Idaho College from Boise. They had been friends since Junior High and were living as roommates while in college. Sam started his freshman year with a full load of classes but began dropping classes about a month into the first semester. By midterm examinations, he was down to one class. Sam was a nice young man. He kept to himself and his only friend in the building was David. Since coming to NIC, Sam had started drinking. In high school Sam would not drink at all; in fact, he was involved with a group that worked to keep students from drinking. Sam's parents were divorced. His father was an alcoholic and had been in and out of treatment programs several times. Sam was not close to his father. His mother was a high school guidance counselor.
Sam was a very neat and organized person, but recently he had lost interest in keeping things in place. He gave some of his most valued possession to David. In recent weeks his sleeping had become erratic. He frequently missed class and started drinking more frequently. Hardly a night went by when he didn't consume 8 to 10 beers.
There was one woman who Sam liked, and they had gone out once or twice. She quickly lost interest and began dating someone else in what appeared to be a serious relationship. Sam felt rejected and somewhat angry over losing out to this other student.
One night David returned from the library and found Sam lying unconscious on the floor of the room. He did not appear to be breathing and could not be awakened. A suicide letter addressed to David was in his shirt pocket and a large, half-empty bottle of aspirin on the sink. A lot of beer cans were strewn about the room. David ran to get the RA.
What would you do?
(Please answer on a separate paper. Please use paper that has already been used on one side. Save the Earth!)
- What signs did Sam give that may have indicated he was suicidal?
- You are the RA that David came to with the above scenario. What is your very next step?
- What should you do to help David?
- What information and assistance should you give to the medical personnel and campus security?
- Should you, as the RA, tell the other students living in the building what happened? If yes, why? If no, why?
- As an RA, what are things you need to do on your floor days later? Weeks?